S14 It's Not the Difficult Conversation, It's the Self-Talk Before. Going #4000to40

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S14 It's Not the Difficult Conversation, It's the Self-Talk Before. Going #4000to40

$700.00

The story you tell yourself is the story you live. And it’s almost impossible to change that story when you’re moving at 4000 words per minute, for yourself, let alone in hopes of influencing another to move towards a common goal with you. Imagine reading a road sign, as you speed by it at 4000 miles an hour.

While talking and listening in belonging, our mind slows down to about 40 words per minute. Your heart's road signs, the cairns to your promised land, come back into view. You get there easier and faster. Slow is smooth, smooth is fast.

We’ll dive into this Conversession (conversational and interactive experience), to give you an understanding of your belonging to help you see the road signs and avoid your potholes.

Topic Area (Working with Difficult People/Difficult Conversations) 

Up to 24 people for Zoom Conversessions, 36 for in-person

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In this 1hr session we’ll cover:

  • The speed of self-talk, 4000 wpm

  • Your Gator vs Your Judge (guess which makes 90% of your decisions)

  • They have a Gator and a Judge too

  • Conflict happens in collaboration, not outside of it, The 4 Goals of Conflict

  • Up to 36 people in person, 24 over Zoom

What you get when you apply and do what you’ve learned:

  • Get aware of yourself and your story at 4000 & 40 wpm

  • Understand that everybody has a Gator (that’s your superpower)

  • Get connected with how you can approach conflict at 40 wpm

Optional Prerequisite:

  • none